Turn Around!
That's it! Just turn around and face away from the person doing the appraisal!
Here's the psychology behind what THEY do during the appraisal. The Used Car Manager will do a walk-around of your car, looking for the slightest dent or ding or flaw in your soon-to-be-former pride and joy.
If he finds anything wrong (or, sometimes, even if he doesn't), the Used Car Manager will pause and grunt or snort or give other indicators of displeasure.
His goal is to bait you into believing you're trading in a pile of junk that will be an embarrassment on his lot. He may ask if your car has been involved in an accident. Even if you truthfully answer "no", he might respond with a "huh!" or "reaaaaaally?" that makes clear the fact that he doesn't remotely believe you.
The point of this entire exercise is to plant seeds of doubt in your mind about the true worth of your old car. Then when you get the dealership's low-ball offer, you'll glumly accept it without protest and they'll make another $1000 or more off you on the deal!
So the absolute worst strategy during the appraisal (and also, unfortunately, the most common) is to follow the person appraising your car around and subject yourself to their critical eye and comments.
Now here's the psychology behind what YOU are going to do. You're simply going to remove yourself from the appraisal process! If you can't see or hear their real or imaginary criticisms, then your mind can't be affected by them.
Heck, when I bring a car in for appraisal at a dealership, not only do I turn around and face the other way, I also walk many steps away and pretend to make a call on my cell phone. I don't want to see or hear anything from the Used Car Manager that'll make me feel my old car is worth less than I know it to be worth.
One of my clients told me she now does the same thing when she sells anything of value--whether an unwanted appliance or when she holds a garage sale. She turns away while they look over whatever she's selling. Then when they approach her and offer a lower price because of some flaw or another, she simply smiles and repeats the original price.
Try it and discover for yourself how well this works for you...then share your results in the Comments section if you desire!
